irritations

i'm openning myself up for some really nasty postings from a certian person i love on this coming comment, but:
why are ppl so offended when they give you advice and you chose not to follow it? i mean, even if there are reasons, like it not being the best thing for your particular situation? its not rational, and its jsut not fair to the advice-reciever....*sighs in frustration*
i'm not stupid, so why do ppl not trust me to make my own desisions, and still say they love me?